Network with Those Singles You Do Meet. Chances are, every single person you meet, knows a number of quality singles just waiting to meet someone too! Just as networking is one of the best ways of getting a job; it is also one of the best ways to meet people. Getting to know people at the different events is a great place to start. Although it may be difficult at first, networking is a skill, and does get easier the more you do it. It may help to remember that everyone you meet at singles events are probably in the same situation as you are. (This is what Christian Singles Network is designed for!)
 

Spend Some Time on Self-Evaluation and Self-Improvement. A good place to start is to make a list of the 5 MUSTS you want in a relationship, and the 5 'NOTS'. Then, look within and identify your 5 MAJOR STRENGTHS and 5 WEAKNESSES. Be willing to work on those items that need improvement. (A close friend can be a great help in identifying these weak areas and devising a plan to work on them.)
 

Volunteer to Help at Various CSN Events. This is an excellent way to meet people, especially if you are somewhat shy! Having a purpose or a job at an event also makes you more approachable. It’s not only a great way to meet a lot of people, but it is also a sign of integrity that you are willing to serve. God promises to help those who help others, so it is something definitely worth praying about. (Galatians 6:7)
 

Spend Time Growing in Your Relationship with God. Oil and water don’t mix. If you want to attract a quality, spiritually minded, Godly person, you need to be one, yourself. Attending church and the CSN Bible studies are a great place to start. (Looking for a good church – ask other singles!)
 

Improve Your Relationship Skills. Communicating, dating and relationships are part practice, part skill and part finesse, mixed with a lot of bravery and tenacity! Men and women do think differently, and react differently to different situations. (Remember: Mars and Venus are still very different planets!) Quality workshops and seminars are great places to pick-up different ideas and improve your communication skills. At the request of many members, CSN will be offering some useful and interest seminars and workshops in September, on a variety of informative subjects. Any golfer (or musician, for that matter) can tell you -- if you don’t work on your skills, seek qualified instruction, and practice consistently what you’ve learned; you will never succeed! (Look for information on the CSN workshops in upcoming newsletters and on the web!)
 

Be Willing to Look "Outside the Box". Everyone has their own preconceived ‘wish list’, and ideas of what their spouse is going to be like. Some people are so busy searching for Prince Charming and Miss Perfect that they let many wonderful people slip through their fingers. Set your goal on meeting and marrying your best friend – and you will find happiness and companionship!
 

Live in the Present. Enjoy your life, learn new hobbies, and keep current with our ever-changing world! Nobody likes to spend time with boring, uninteresting people – so don’t be one! Sign-up NOW for activities before you forget – or ‘chicken out’! Remember: "The future never comes, and the present is always here."
 

If You Keep on Doing What You Have Been Doing – You’ll Keep Getting What You’ve Been Getting.  Or as Dr. Phil says, "How’s this workin’ for you?" Not only do you have to desire to act, but you have to act on your desires!